Financial Assistance for Single Dads
Although single father households are a minority in the US, it has grown over 900% since 1960 to a point today where almost 1 in 4 homes are single father households. With many traditional organizations and non-profits focused on the larger portion of single mother homes, resources for single dads can sometimes be more difficult to find. Yet many Federal and State programs have become inclusive of either sex for single parent homes.
Below are some programs for immediate household living needs followed by additional financial help programs for single fathers.
Social Security Loans (SSI)
Many single fathers across the country collecting Social Security may qualify for more financial assistance through SSI. For those whose only income is Social Security and you are in need of a loan, there may be specialist lenders who will assist. Learn more about SSI and other social security loan options here.
Programs for Shelter
The US Federal Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) provides the best housing assistance program for single parent low income families. This program provides housing assistance in the form of housing vouchers or coupons for rent, utility bills and other housing costs. If you do not qualify, many States offer Rental Assistance programs in geared-to-income housing complexes if you qualify. Most of these rental assistance programs have an income eligibility requirement. If you do not qualify because your income is too high, there are other possible options.
The Affordable Housing Unemployment Program (UP) was created to help those individuals that own their own home keep it during a period of unemployment. Or if you are underemployed or cannot make your monthly mortgage or housing payments the HAMP, Home Affordable Modification Program can lower your payments to only 31% of your gross pay if you qualify.
If you are well below the poverty line in your area HUD also provides Tenant Based Housing Vouchers. This is for those families that are 50% or less below the median incomes in their areas.
Food
Providing food for your family is also a basic necessity that a lot of single parent families find difficult on one income. There are multiple programs that can help at every level of government and from charitable organizations in your area.
The Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP), previously known as food stamps is a federal program with certain eligibility requirements that you must meet. If you do you will be given a debit card that will be loaded weekly with a food stamp budget at participating grocers for food necessities. It does not include alcohol or certain other goods.
If you also have trouble providing nutritious meals for your children while they are at school the National School Lunch Program (NSLP) provides free or very low cost meals to students at participating schools.
There are also many other food sources for struggling families that are usually run at the state and local levels. These include local food banks and charities that provide either meals directly to low income families or food baskets during especially difficult holiday seasons.
Other Needs
The Temporary Assistance for Needy Families is another program that provides a range of services. These include helping you apply for food stamps, get job training, getting financial assistance if you need it and help in finding and keeping a job.
There are a number of resources for single fathers as well, usually in your own city. These comprise organizations that specialize or focus on the needs of either one-parent families or single father families.
Below is a list of additional resource for single fathers:
Child Support Programs:
Child & Dependent Care Credit Program – This allows single fathers the ability to reduce their taxable income by submitting the care costs of the child or dependent to the federal tax office. To learn more about this program visit here.
Office of Child Care – This is a government department that provides low income families access to high quality afterschool programs. It’s to help fund and find child care programs around irregular schedules. Learn more here.
Child Care Aware – Is additional resource to help single fathers with finding inexpensive, quality child care within their locality. There network of agencies stretches across the country with over 600+ partners. Go to http://childcareaware.org/ for more detail.
Transportation Programs:
Single Dad Transportation Grants – Different states have grants which can help single fathers either receive free vehicles or heavily discounted vehicles. The type of assistance received depends on the grant and state.
Freecharitycars.org – This is a charity which also assists single parents with acquiring a vehicle when they can’t afford one – It a great program which helps numerous needy families throughout the country.
Community Action Agencies – Check with your local CAA as they may be able to assist with applying for grants and also assist with discounted or free bus tickets.
Education Programs:
Pell Grant – This is one of Americas most popular educational assistance programs. This is a Federal program which helps thousands of Americans get into school without taking on a loan and assisting those who otherwise could not afford to go to university. The amount you can receive depends on your financial situation, your study status. Learn more here.
Federal Work-Study Programs – This is a program that provides part-time jobs for students while they study. The program spends over $150 billion each year and assists over 13 million students – For more information visit https://studentaid.ed.gov/about.
For additional state specific assistance will bills and other financial commitments, please visit our homepage and click your state within our interactive map.
Low Income Financial Help receives a large number of enquiries in regards to single parent loans or single father loans. While we haven’t found any one lender that specializes in single parent or single father loans, we have found potential low income loans that are great alternatives to high interest pay day type of loans.
Learn more about Free items and other money assistance services for single parents: Free clothes, furniture, school accessories, help with fines, seasonal items & more!
The below services are in-general and may not be available in your location. However, if not available, many have partnerships with other organizations through out most states that they can connect you with.
Free Hotel or Motel Vouchers for the Homeless or Emergencies
Those experiencing hardship and are without a roof over their head can access different types of short and possibly longer term accommodation throughout all states. Learn more about accommodation assistance in here.
Dealing with tickets or fines
If you have unpaid tickers or fines, avoiding them will only create further financial and credit problems. Learn about ways to get assistance with dealing with fines, from requesting a waiver or challenging inaccurate fines. Get the information you need to tackle fines here.
How to get a free laptop or computer
Low income families have a range of organizations that provide free technology assistance such as computers and laptops throughout the country. Learn about what free computers and laptop organizations are near you and how to apply here.
How to get free gas for emergencies
Gas prices are skyrocketing in all parts of the country, putting serious strain on family budgets. For those dealing with cashflow issues and finding it hard to put fuel in the car, there is help. Learn how to get free gas for emergencies through free gas vouchers.
Getting a free or low cost car
At any given time there are different organizations that assist low income earners with transportation. Across the country there are different services that assist single parents with getting a vehicle. Learn more about free cars, how to get one and where to apply.
Hello my name is Antonio jackson, I’m a single father and homeless with my child, I was looking online seeking for help please if you can help me and my child.
Hi Antonio,
Please follow this link to locate the nearest community action agency in Los Angles who can provide you with immediate assistance. Options in the LA area include http://www.lacity.org/cdd, http://www.foothillunitycenter.org and http://dpss.lacounty.gov/dpss/csbg
Regards,
Low Income Financial Help
Im A father That shares kids with the mother…. None of these programs work. I live in PA, every single program goes off of gross income, not my Net. Therefore I am denied. I pay 1,000 dollars in child support. No help, doesn’t even get included as payments. Just “to much gross pay”…its said
The whole system is so fucked up and tears families apart. I hurt my back didn’t have income for months and fell behind on child support next they suspended my drivers license.. That turned into 3 years of hell after getting another driving on a suspended license along with no insurance no seatbelt tickets from being behind and broke all from fear of going to jail. After all of that and being completely broke and unable to work I was thrown in jail fo 60 days. And after getting out I got hit with a third driving on suspended license my insurance has quadrupled I could go on and on but no one gives a fuck. I can’t even imagine how many suicides that this has caused all they care about is making there money off of the interest they get from you falling behind on a and keeping you in a deffacite and completely wrecking your life.
Hello i am a single father with a 4 year old girl i have a full time job but i need help find2 a place to live please need help
My name is Robert Howard. I am a single dad, homeless with a child. Can i plz recieve help
H8 I’m a single father wife the mother of my six kids passed away on the 26th of January 2020. Thanks to my mother in law she stuck by my side and helped us get a place with her ssi but it’s barley covers our rent trying to get help with extra funds. Been out of job kids in school very hard to make ends meet . I live in Aurora CO anything will help I’m 32 and kids range from 6-15 yrs of age..
Hi i am a single dad i live in waterbury ct i applied for housing a while back and still no response i been living from house to house do to that im homeless i am working thru a agency getting paid 10 dollars a hours and is difficult for me to save to get a appartment need help….
Hi Javier,
Please review the following information for some potential assistance – lowincomefinancialhelp.com/getting-help-paying-rent and lowincomefinancialhelp.com/community-action-agencies-services
Hi i am Derek i live in Nevada. My wife and i separated after an affair she decided to desert her family for. All four of my children reside with me. I was supporting us all sufficiently with a good job n good income. I recently was hospitalized for about nine months incurring many medical and other bills. The bills i once so easily paid went from becoming a struggle for me with only a small monthly chk but have now become a dire situation. I’ve been back at work now but the checks i have seen this past month have been deducted so much i barely receive any of what all i earn. I am now unable to pay a truck payment and might lose my only transportation that provides for my children and I. i’m also gonna have to move the living situation i’m in now, very soon. I can not afford to move or the rent amounts for our size families at this time. Is there any assistance programs that can help with my situation so we do not become in much more need ? Any help to get us by would suffice.
I am a single father in the Pittsburgh area, and I can barely afford rent , are there any programs to help me??
Hi Brendon,
It might be easiest to reach out to your local Community Action Agency as they can provide you with support programs within the area. In addition, here is some other rental and mortgage help information which may be of assistance.
Hi I’m a single father with split custody of 2 kids that now lives in my CAR. I work but don’t qualify for anything and don’t make 3x the rent so I can’t get an apartment. I’m in Rhode Island and in my car for 3 months now while still working full time I’m about to give up
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I live in San Antonio, Texas. I really do need help. I’m for help to provide My 5 sons a place to call home & also provide them a good stable financial living state.
Hi Ricardo,
There are a few things you can do to get local assistance. Try your local church as they generally have multiple resources within the community to help. You can also check with your local CAA which also will be able to aid you with both state and federal financial programs.
Regards,
My dad just got his 3 three younger kids from his ex wife, is there any help he can get. He needs all basic necesities for them. From carseats, food, clothing, anything you can think of. He has a place but was given nothing but clothes for them, which they will grow out of eventually. If anyone can help him that will be great thank you
Hi Liz,
The best think he can do is to check with your local CAA as they will be able to provide him with detail on all support programs within his immediate area, not to mention federal programs as well.
Regards,
Hi I am a single dad of two trying to make ends meet and wanted to know if there is any assistance available in CT.
Hi I live inwilliamsburg,va. I am a single parent with a 5yr old . Need help with housing and. Finding a low income after school care, one that I can know my child values will be considered. Help!
I live in utah and am a father of two that is in a domestic situation in utah. Guess what I can not find any resources for us. Everywhere I have contacted and called brush me off because I’m not a single mom. Plain English my wife; kids stepmother, had the swat team with negotiators at home for firing a weapon! Do you think I can get help with emergency housing? Ha ha ha what a joke!!!!! I can’t even get my own victims advocate to email me with a resource list!!!!!!
Hi I’m a single father and homeless with my baby. We stay in Minnesota. Is there anything you could do to help us?
I’m a single father with two children. We’re in the back half of a Home for $200 a week we received a three day notice that we must leave because I am unemployed and cannot pay rent. We have nowhere to go and I must come up with $200 by tomorrow or me and my children will be homeless. Me and my children would appreciate any help or resources that you can help us with.
I am a single dad of 5 sons. I recently gained 50/50 custody of my boys while in middle of a divorce. Gained my house back after she put it into foreclosures and i qualify for no help even though i pay her half my net income. Because of the fact noone considers how much i pay her my gross monthly income puts me $10000 into median income when last year i payed her over cash My home has a serious septic issue that will cause me to lose it and i cant afford to fix it alome and thus losing my boys. I cant lose them i fought so hard to get them. I called every where evry website please help me
Hey iam bout to go into same deal. Is there anyway to get help to pay mortgage and get back on track I have three boys
I live in pg County Maryland I just got full custody of my daughter and her needs and all my bills are causing me to struggle pay check to pay check my biggest problem is coming up with rent every month. How can I get some help?
Hi, I really need help in N.Y, my wife was cheating on me when my son was born she kicked me out the house and got pregnant by someone else while still being married to me and now im bouncing from family members house without a stable environment for my son and I is there any agencies or program I can enroll in to get housing for my son and I?
I know a 28 yr single father of an 8 yr old boy….he is fixing to get kicked out of his home, his truck broke down today.. he does receive SNAP an lives in the Gonzales, LA area…if he is not able to fix his truck he has no way to get to wk to pay his rent?
Can you lead him in the right direction to get rental assistance or housing as he is currently living in his family mother in laws house payin 500 rent but just told him today he has to be out by Jan 1, yes in 3 days!
Hi may God bless you. My daughter and I recently became homeless, so weven are bouncing around from motel to motel. Please can you help us before the money runs out.
Child protective service place me custody of my son but failed to give me any of his information and currently I’m facing homelessness with my son and I am seeking help
Hi please can anyone help me i live in Los Angeles and I can barely afford food and shelter for my 2 kids and one of them has been diaitcnost of having diabetes and we have been moving from house to house trying to find at least a stable home
I’m a single father with a temp job and about to lose my rental property due to the landlord foreclosure. I need help with with rental ,any help will be greatly appreciated. I jus recently went into remission with cancer so I’m having a hard time finding a lot of work
I’m single dad in Illinois who is separated, although not divorced I give my wife 20% of my net income as a requirement for Illinois. We have paper trail on everything we do for future purposes as we will divorce later on. I see my 15month old every week and stud with me 3 days a week. With all my bills and mortgage I end up having about $300 for the month and that’s not including food and driving gas. I do make decent money but I’m still in necessity. Any help or someone who I can explain my whole breakdown to get any kind of assistance ?
Hello I’m in need of serious help soon. My kids mother decided she was leaving with rent and any other assets we had. I have two beautiful boys 4 and 1 1\2. THEY ARE MY WORLD. I am a clean and sober dad have been for 6 1/2 years now. I do what I can I was working until Dec an have been trying to get back since this is all very strange for me in not one to ask for help. But I don’t wanna loose our home. My older son is on the autisum spectrum. He goes to a special s hook right where in our town an I don’t wanna have him loose his stability an structure. I’m 28 an I do still love there mother but it’s time for us to go seprate ways it’s just not fair that she would just abandon us an leave nothing for us to survive. Our foodsramps go on one card which she has an it’s getting bare around here so anyone with any help suggestions etc I’d be much appreciative the kyou so much and God bless even if you just take a m9ment to read this thanks.
Hi my name is jose im a single dad raising 3 girls 3 year old 2 year old and a 1 yrar old we are currently staying in homeless shelter for 90 days after that we will be back on the streets if anyone can help with some resources that would be nice thank you.
Hi my brother in-law who lives in Albuquerque NM became a single dad and needs help. He has gone to court and they have given him primary custody of his son. They want him to take his son for super vised visits three days a week, but his job is not willing to work with him and have threaten to fire him.
Hi my name is Kevin i am a single parent of a 11 year old daughter and on disability can not live with my stepdad anymore due to some disagreements look for some help i live in Charleston SC area
Hello my name is Raymond and im a single dad of a 4 year old. And i live in merced Ca and is there any help for me to get a stable place even if its a studio. When i came back to my home town here in merced i had money and tried to get a place but couldn’t cause of identity theft. So i dnt knw what to do and my car is messing up as well. Any help would very appreciative.
I’m a single dad of a 4 year old autistic boy and can’t stay at the were I am because there’s always fighting going on in the house and can’t have him around that and so I don’t know where to go to get help on finding a place to live
I need help going back to school. Who do I contact to see if I am eligible for the pell grant
Im writing this for a close friend. He is a single father of 2 boys and in a really rough situation. Making his way back to TN with no where to go. So as it sits he is homeless. Ive tried to help, but Im currently located in Vegas 🙁 if anyone knows of any resources that could be helpful to him please let me know.
Hello, I’m a single father of a 9 yrs. old boy and we are homeless. I work however due to my background I can’t seem to find a place for us to live. Where can I go in Miami, Florida to find assistance
I’m a single father and have been for awhile. I’m tired of being unstable my daughter and i just moving place to place. All i need help with is someone help get us a home and I’ll take it from there. I’m former military Man and i live and battle for my daughter to have a better life then me.
I’m a single disabled homeless father of one 10 year old boy. My wife was deported and that left me and my child in ruines. My boy also needs medical care. My income is not enough to even begin to roam around and seek a place to live. If somone can help us, inform me, or guide me to a place where I can be helped, Please give us hope.
I’m a single father to a 1 year old daughter. I work at a fast food place but I’m strugling to pay bills. I made a decision on getting my cdl but I can’t take classes to get my certification and work at the same time. I need help with my bills so I can focus on getting my cdl to give my daughter a better life. Please help with information please and thank you
Hello im a single father in Louisville Ky i dont know what to do
Hello everyone,
I’m a single father to a 3 ur old boy. I’ve managed to secure a rent to own proprty, but I’ve been in school since he was born. I still have a few more years left and ran out of gov. Aid to pay for school. I’ve been working part time. I’m afraid of working full time. I’m over halfway done with school and don’t want to screw it up because of having to work full time to help pay for school. Is there any other ideas of how to pay for school without having to work full time or sacrificing time with my son.
im 22 with a 2 year old . we are struggng s bad . my mom wont even help i cant even affoard housing rent in tambrind fl. please help
Hi my name is Eric father to 2 girls 8 and 5 and we just became homeless and need assistance for a home I have a job but not making it and can save for deposit we live in Danville Illinois I been holding on for the last year was staying with family but is not sustainable no more and got no were to go if anybody can help please it will be much appreciated thank you
I’m a single father with a 15yr old daughter, and we currently just relocated to Chicago Illinois from California. I’ve applied for housing assistance through multiple agencies, but I haven’t had any luck. At the moment I’m out of work, but I am able and willing to work so I’ll continue to search. If anyone was any information as far as emergency housing in the Chicago area I’d really appreciate it. Thanks in advance
I’m being evicted for being late on rent. I am a single father with a 4yo and 15yo boys what help is there for me in Ventura CA the wait list for housing is 9 years
I was evicted from my apartment of 11 years. I pay rent & the just said she want to upgrade the apartment.
I’m a single father of three children. I’m homeless but I do work and still need help. Just because someone work & have a car doesn’t mind he can’t be homeless, can anyone help me out there………
I’m a single dad in Texas and my daughter is living with me. I need assistance paying my rent. I’m not employed at the moment and her mother is not helping us out financially. I’m having trouble locating a grant or some type of assistance. I live at the family apartment dorms at my college. Can you please give me some guidance for a grant??
Hi my name is Walter and I’m homeless with 2 kids, I’ve been homeless and trying to get on my feet for a year and a half and am loosing this battles. I am in Jacksonville, Fl and really need assistance. I make 12.50 an hour but currently on medical leave for a foot injury and only get 60% of my pay. Any assistance would be appreciated.
My daughter and I recently became homeless in Miami Florida and I’m trying to figure out is there any programs of shelters that would accept is. This is a dire situation. Does anyone know if they’ll allow us in a shelter together?
I am in saint Petersburg Florida. Single father. Need help.
North Florida / Single father of 2 girls and have custody looking for housing help i am epileptic a work only a little / about 15hrs a week. Looking for help were i stay now is with a elderly non blood related family member and need help in about a month due to they are relocating
Hi, My name is Lewis from Muskegon, MI I’m need help with getting water on to a place I just got. I was homeless but not anymore. I have three kids to take care. I just started back to work but its only part time hours. Trying to bounce back from separation and divorce I was left with the kids and just need a little help to get back on track. Please!
Hello my name is Charles, living-in EL Paso Texas, I have five little angels, after my wife passed away things have been difficult and now are gtting worse, Im struggling with all my payments all my credit cards are maxed I can’t afford daycare any more. if I could stay at home and watch my kids that would be a dream, but unfortunately I have to work to provide a roof over our heads and food on the table, I understand there are people on these comments that seem to be worse off., out on the streets with no home.. I’m trying to avoid it before it gets to that point.. any assistance whatsoever would be greatly appreciated.
Hi Charles, Sorry for what you are going through.
The Government offers grants for single fathers, and you may be eligible for. They offer food, housing and child care assistance.
I wish you the best of luck for you and your kids.
Looking for education resources for single father, trade schools, certifications ect…
This is quite humourous. TANF, requires you earn an amount of money, that once earned, your off TANF, but still cant afford anything. Homeless shelters, where they exist, don’t ever refer to men with children as fathers or even men. They are called single males with children.
HUD has a two year waiting list, but food stamps are available. This site provides NO UNIQUE OR SPECIALIZED HELP FOR SINGLE FATHERS. Just like the rest of the country.
Hi my name is Todd and I’m going through a living situation with me and my son right now I am not employed right now I supposed to be on SSI but they denied my claim so I’m struggling to find housing for me and my son right now are about to be homeless and we need assistance
Hi my name is cesar and I need help to rent a apartment I have 3 kids and I can afford for a regular rental apartment ! Im living iwith some persons and I sleep in the living room no place for my kids here!!
So I need to get a place for my kids so they can spend the weekend with me ! I hope you guys can help me ! because I don’t know what to do anymore!! Thanks
I live in phx az my wife soon to be ex wife is leaving me and letting me keep my daughter! We have been a single income family since she moved me here! She has always been the bread winner of the house and ibrevently broke my back in 2 places! Now I don’t know what to do??? Plz can any 1 help me?
hi i am trying to help my fiance look and get information on place/progams that wil help single fathers in texas. Will someone please give me some information or please contact me via email pleaswe needing help immediately
Hi I’m a single father with my daughter in Texas. I lost my job and I dont have transportation and my daughter and I are about to be homeless with nowhere to go..is there any programs here in Texas that would help me and my daughter Please contact me via email ..I am truly in need of help.
i do not have access to my email
Asking for my nephew. My 32 year old nephew has 3 kids under the age of 10. He is a truck driver and works all kinds of hours basically he’s not home for a long period of time so he doesn’t see his kids that much. He pays his court ordered child support and he pays his car & ins. After this he does not have much money left for rent or food. When his ex allows him to see his kids he has to ask around for money to stay in a hotel with his kids for a couple nights. I don’t know how to help him and wondered if there is help for him. Please help.
I’m a 38 year old single father with a one-and-a-half-year-old daughter diagnosed with epilepsy I’m going for disability due to a work injury three years ago still waiting my disability near homeless no income I need help to find housing if there’s anybody that can help me I live in the South bend Indiana area
I am a single father of three kids my wife has recently passed away a couple months ago and left me with three kids I am learning how to live life now I have no job I lost my place live in a shelter don’t know what to do to make my life better I am trying to rewrite it for me and the kids to be able to take the next step to make my life better at the same time so lonely and so hurt and I’ll be next to me to love me but my kids they shouldn’t have to go through this and I feel so sad the life is turned upside down I’m trying to do everything in my will power to make it better from Prezza every night I lay down and shut my head I cried because I feel that I’m not good for my kids
My name is Brandon I have 4 children and living in a weekly has been very very stressful lately. I manage but with 2 teens need something bigger Im in a 2bd 1 ba maybe 700 sq. Want to find a housing place to see if i can get help. Im im Phoenix, AZ. and will take all the help I can get. Kids mom won’t help but will bring other toys for kids and Candy.
Hi, my name is Julius B, from Detroit, and I need help, I don’t have any wreckless habits, I’m heavily involved with my kids life’s, I’m just tired of living with my parents. Please help
my name is Tyvarie i have 3 boys the youngest 2 mom developed covid and its affected my hours /… i have no help i need money and my boys need coats shoes and essential clothing and house equipment so i can teach or homeschool ,my oldest im doing it all alone since they came down w ith covid
Hi,
My name is Rashaan Armstrong and I’m currently experiencing homelessness with my 12-year-old son. I moved him here a few months back to live with me and my ex-girlfriend of 8 years. I and her got into it like a month ago and we ( me and my son) have been homeless since. I was writing to you guys to see if there was any help or resources that you could provide me with. I would be very grateful and thankful. It would also be helpful if you guys could cover my story to see if I could get any kind of help or resources from the public. I do still work and drive and I’m drug-free. Just happen to be going through very difficult times right now. Please and thank you.
Arizona single dad need housing and financial help for my daughter and myself
Whoever reads this, just keep going forward. There’s no help for men. You can do this